Let Your Baby Feed Themselves
With Baby Led Weaning
Starting baby food is a super exciting time.. how will it effect
your baby? Discover how Elimination
Communication can help you do this at the right pace for your
baby.
Baby
Led Weaning is a way of introducing homemade family foods that allows you to support
your baby's natural instincts about which foods they eat.
Combined
with EC you can notice signs as to
whether your baby is ready for the various foods and food combinations,
and what you can do to ease the transition.
Once
your baby is older than six
months, you can see if they are ready to begin eating, as they'll let you
know, by picking it up and eating it themselves! Throughout the anthological
record, it has been noted that babies began eating foods other than breast milk
between 6 months and two years, so it is really only now that evidence
based science has caught up and confirmed six months plus as the right
time to introduce solids to baby.
Luckily
there are some built in ways to help you make the introduction of family
foods easy on the digestive system of your baby... their natural
instincts!
It is also
called Baby Led Weaning, but I prefer baby-led solids as a description of
starting solids with baby leading the way, by trusting baby's in-built
natural instincts.
Skip
the purees and mush to have fun with table foods!
You'll be able to use your best homemade recipes when starting baby on
solid foods.
The
evidence for this is in the result of too-soon solids on the digestive
system, on allergy levels, and you can read more about
why
to delay solids to at least six months here.
It's really helpful to know about the open gut of a young baby and the
impact that starting baby foods too early can have on their digestion, and
ongoing effects. The original resource on the topic of a
baby-
led introduction of solids can be found here.
Here's the list from that site which I found useful, and
it was all we needed. You'll find they are common sense - what you'd do
as a Mom anyway.
DOs
and DON'Ts for baby-led introduction of solids
-
DO
offer your baby the chance to participate whenever anyone else in the
family is eating. You can begin to do this towards the end of the
sixth month. Around this time most babies start showing an interest in
watching you.
-
DO
ensure that your baby is supported in an upright position while he is
experimenting with food. In the early days you can sit him on your
lap, facing the table. Once he is beginning to show skill at picking
food up he will almost certainly be mature enough to sit, with minimal
support, in a high chair.
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DO
start by offering food that is baby-fist-sized, preferably
chip-shaped. As far as possible, and provided they are suitable, offer
him the same food that you are eating, so that he feels part of what
is going on.
-
DO
offer a variety of food. There is no need to limit your babies
experience with food any more than you do with toys.
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DON'T
hurry your baby. Allow him to direct the pace of what he is doing. In
particular, don't be tempted to 'help' him by putting things in his
mouth for him.
-
DON'T
expect your baby to eat any food on the first few occasions. Once he
has discovered that these new toys taste nice, he will begin to chew
and, later, swallow.
-
DON'T
expect a young baby to eat all of each piece of food - remember that
he won't yet have developed the ability to get at food inside his
fist.
-
DO
try rejected food again later - babies often change their minds and
later accept food they originally turned down.
-
DON'T
leave your baby on his own with food.
-
DON'T
offer food that presents an obvious danger, such as peanuts.
-
DON'T
offer 'fast' food, ready meals or food that has added salt or sugar.
-
DO
offer water from a cup but don't worry if your baby shows no interest
in it. A breastfed baby is likely to continue for some time to get all
the drink he needs from the breast.
-
DO
be prepared for the mess! A clean plastic sheet on the floor under the
high chair will protect your carpet and make cleaning up easier. It
will also enable you to give back food that has been dropped, so that
less is wasted. (You will be pleasantly surprised at how quickly your
baby learns to eat with very little mess!)
-
DO
continue to allow your baby to breastfeed whenever he wants, for as
long as he wants. Expect his feeding pattern to change as he starts to
eat more of the other food.
-
DO
discuss this method of weaning with your health advisers before
embarking on it, especially if you are bottle feeding, or have a
family history of food intolerance, allergy or digestive problems.
-
DO
enjoy watching your baby learn about food - and develop his skills
with his hands and mouth in the process!
Interesting
insights from doing baby-led solids with my baby:
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He had a slow
introduction - he didn't eat anything until 7.5 months, and would only eat
a small amount - far less than what the baby books would say, yet he'd be
perfectly happy eating for about five minutes or so, then that would be
it! As Kelly says, most references on baby food are geared towards babies
that have weaned early.
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I would always notice how his body responded - if he got any digestive disturbances,
started having any sort of straining to poop, I'd ease back to just milk until it
cleared, then try something else, as his body was probably not quite ready
for that food.
-
Mostly, however, he would do this himself - we'd put out a variety of
foods, he'd choose to eat those things that his body could easily manage
that age - it wouldn't just come out the other end looking the same! That
was a sign he wasn't producing the appropriate enzymes yet for that type
of food. Some enzymes aren't produced until they are over eighteen months
of age. It was interesting that he really began eating lots and all sorts
towards his second birthday, and this was when it would all be 'processed'
nicely by his body! It was also curious that by eighteen months I realized
he had been independent for doing poops for a while.
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In practicing EC, with the immediate feedback (and I don't mean getting
weed on, I mean noticing how it is effecting them) it can be easy to spot
signs of food reactions. Here are a list of common symptoms that might
mean baby is reacting to a food, whether it is directly or via breastmilk.
If it is via breastmilk you can remove or limit them from your diet once
identified, or time your eating of them to just after a breastfeed, and what a difference that can make to your ease of EC, and to
you and your baby's lives!
Signs
of a possible food reaction *
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rashes
of any kind
skin bumps or raised, rough areas
rough spots behind the ears
bright red cheeks
dark rings under the eyes
glassy eyes
constipation
diarrhoea
snarts (- an EC
term for constant tiny poop dribbles past the newborn stage)
really frequent peeing for age
bad attitude
fatigue
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irritability
red ring around anus
head pounding
night sweats
frequent night waking
cradle cap
super picky about food
sudden change in demeanor
frequent spitting up
mucousy poop
chronic runny/stuffy nose
'colicky' baby
lots of crying, screaming
excessive ear wax
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This
is a list from the
Elimination
Communication Yahoo Group - I found it a valuable resource in
helping me to realise that my baby was reacting to *too much* wheat in my
diet, and later to pineapple (too many salicylates in them for his system)
I was able to identify and remove or reduce the offending foods, and thus
had a much happier baby! If it wasn't for EC, I may not have known the
effect it was having on his little body. As he grew older and stronger he was able to
tolerate those foods normally. I was so glad to have found out before any
permanent or chronic problem emerged.
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You can do your own research starting at resources
such as these:
"Is This Your Child?" Doris Rapp, MD Dr
Rapp.com
Her
Cookbook "The Whole Foods Allergy Cookbook" Has recipes
which have had removed the 8
allergens responsible for 90% of all food allergies.
"Fed Up!" by Sue Dengate.
The
Food Intolerance Network
There
is a
Yahoo group called Foodlab run and visited by a large group of
Moms (some of whom practice EC) who explore food intolerances, allergies
and reactions and share experiences, recipes, support and help pinpoint
possible causes. A valuable resource to consider joining if you think your
baby may be reacting to a food and you can't work out what it may be.
Here's
the Foodlab Group's Description:
This
group is for exchanging ideas, information, and experiences in
experimenting with cooking, especially for picky eaters, families with
food allergies, and other restricted ingredients. Related discussions,
such as where to find ingredients, brand comparisons, and impacts of
particular foods on health and well-being are welcome.
This group does not subscribe to, support, or recommend any particular
food philosophy or habits. Whether you're strict vegan or follow Weston A.
Price, you can share your experiences and learn from others' here.
Visit the Yahoo Foodlab
group
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How
will your EC practice help with the start of using 'family table' foods for
baby?
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When practicing any amount of EC you will
begin immediately developing the awareness of
the response of baby's digestion on their elimination patterns - for
instance if they start doing a lot more pees, or peeing more often, or if they get constipated
or the runs, it is easier to tell when it is in a potty or a bowl, rather
than sucked away into a diaper.
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You can easily see if their wee is getting smellier or more concentrated
due to an imbalance for the same reason, by the scent or color (as close
to clear is best) and can scale back their amount of solids or what they
are eating accordingly, and then begin once their system clears.
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I found EC was a great reassurance for breastfeeding - I always
knew he was
feeding enough by his patterns and that his wee was nice and pale and odorless. On hot days of course it was more concentrated, and after naps.
But, if he began peeing copiously and got stressed or stopped signaling at all, I'd suspect something wasn't agreeing with him at the time, and
his system was getting rid of it as fast as possible. So, I'd help him by
offering the breast more (he was cue-fed anyway) while reducing the food I
suspected was the cause (though he ate what he liked, and would stop
eating by his own instincts.)
Baby - Led
Solids and EC - a Great
Aid to Introducing Solids for Baby

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Learning
More About Elimination Communication:
To
learn about how using baby sign language can aid in your communication
with your baby for pottying and many other ways, read
Baby
Sign Language and EC.
Resources Supporting Baby-Led Solids That I found Helpful:
Kellymom.com
such as Solid
foods and the breastfed baby / toddler
World
Health Organisation such as Exclusive
Breastfeeding for six months
Australian
Breastfeeding Association such
as Just
breast milk, thanks!
Guidelines
for implementing a baby-led approach to the introduction of solid
foods.
Wikipedia:
Baby
Led Weaning entry.
A
bunch of Mums
on the ABA Forum
use a baby-led solids approach.
Baby
Led Weaning
Blog
Baby Led Weaning
Yahoo
Discussion Group
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